What’s your No.1 Expectation from Her?

We asked. Men answered. And no, it’s not just about what happens in bed. Well… not only.

We hear a lot about what women want: love, security, emotional understanding, and a man they can admire (read: not a walking red flag with a PS5 addiction). But what about men? What does he expect in a relationship that’s actually worth staying in?

1. Respect

Yes, he wants to feel admired. No, not for lifting heavy things or owning a nice watch (okay… maybe a little). But for who he is, what he builds, how he shows up. Respect is the love language most men never learned to name, but deeply crave.

2. Emotional Safety

Men want to feel safe too. Shocking, right? Somewhere between “man up” and “don’t cry,” we forgot that guys need space to be real. A relationship where he doesn’t have to perform 24/7 is a rare and treasured find.

Yes, sex matters. So does touch, closeness, and those random forehead kisses that say you’re mine. For men, physical affection is connection—it’s how they feel wanted, not just needed.

4. Support

Behind every confident man is… himself. But also a woman who believes in him when his Wi-Fi, business pitch, and self-esteem are all crashing. He doesn’t want saving—he wants someone who gets the mission.

5. Joy & Friendship

Life’s too short for a relationship that feels like a team meeting. He wants a partner who laughs, plays, explores, and can make a trip to IKEA feel like a romantic comedy instead of a hostage situation.

6. Honesty

No riddles, no games. He’d rather hear the uncomfortable truth than decode a passive-aggressive emoji. Say what you mean. He’ll appreciate it (even if he’s sweating while you say it).

In the end, the expectations of men and women aren’t that different. We all want to be valued, understood, and connected to someone who believes in us. The details might vary, but the essence is the same: a relationship that makes life feel like the best adventure you never want to end.